I was talking on the phone with a friend of mine last week. They called me for spiritual advice.
I get those calls from my friends all the time. And I love to help out. Nothing makes me happier.
The thing is, in order to get there – it requires telling the truth, a lot of the truth and nothing but the truth. And this isn’t always easy.
It’s hard for us to admit when something is wrong or when we need help.
Trust me… I get it. I spent many years trying to do everything on my own. I can tell you… It didn’t work.
I was telling my friend that in order to go deeper, they’ve got to acknowledge what’s going on and tell the truth.
Not the same BS story we repeat over and over again.
Just the plain and simple truth.
When I told them this…. It brought up a lot of fear, anxiety, and doubt.
Again… I get it! The journey of self-discovery and healing is a slippery slope. It brings up emotions that we don’t always know exist. It’s so easy to bury feelings and memories from the past.
We are so afraid of being found out! We are so afraid of being judged, that people will know we really don’t have our shit together. Can you relate?
And then I wondered if it is a Universal fear?
For the longest time I thought it was only me.
Like… Do you ever worry about being “found out”?
I did!
For years I walked around like everything in my life was great.
I was always happy.
You would have never known deep down inside I was suffering.
Why should I bother people with my problems is what I always thought.
Who would care anyway.
So here’s what I have to say…
You’re a mess sometimes. And that’s OK!
I’m a mess sometimes. I’ve learned to embrace it.
And yet… You are also brave and wise. So am I.
You are also beautiful. You are also smart, strong, intelligent and worthy of anything you desire.
And yes… We all have a past. There are parts of you that you’re ashamed of.
Me too!
But here’s what’s so awesome… When you acknowledge and share those parts is when things will change.
That guilt and shame turns into healing and self-love.
People are going to love us for who we are. Not who we think we should or have to be.
Our mess is our message!
When you let go and admit it, accept that you have moments of being a mess and you share that feeling of feeling unworthy at times with the rest of us, then you can step into a larger, happier, and freer life.
To Living Fabulous, Fearless & Free!
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